Last updated on Jan, 2022.
(I wrote the majority of this in 2020, will probably be removing this page from my site)
Hi!👋🏽 Allow me to actually introduce myself. I'm Shy - if you want to learn Shayan and not Shy, click here for my resume. Here I'm going to give you my own little twist on an 'About Me' page, where I'll be focusing on what you don't really get to see on my traditional resume. I had a lot of fun putting this together, and I learned a lot about myself after rewriting it approximately 20 times. I challenge you all to give this a try when you get a chance - write an entire page about who you REALLY are.
Shortest timeline ever
- Born in London, ON, 4 minutes before my twin. He hates it when I call him my younger brother.
- Started playing soccer at the age of 4, and piano at the age of 6. Not a prodigy in either.
- Attended full french school until grade 8. Yes, even math was in french.
- Moved to Etobicoke, ON, where I attended Richview CI for secondary school.
- Attended the University of Waterloo for 5 years where I graduated from the Honours Economics Co-op program - while also playing on the varsity soccer team.
- Throughout the first 6 months of COVID-19 I: Had fun learning the basics of HTML/CSS to build the first version of this website, started my personal blog, and had the opportunity to interview with many amazing organizations.
- Worked @ Phreesia on the Customer Success team for just over 1 year. Summarized experience: Great product, amazing people, great (remote) work environment, and even better partners. Click here to see what a few of my immediate teammates had to say about working with me!
- Currently working @ Bluescape as a Customer Success Manager.
Why I made this website
I made this website because I was tired of being a consumer. I came across the 90-9-1 rule of internet culture in "You're not listening" by Kate Murphy, where she shares the idea that only 1% of users of the internet create most of the content, 9% comment or contribute sparingly, and 90% just observe and do not participate - I like to refer to those 90% as 'consumers'. There's nothing wrong with consuming things, but the problem arises when you stop creating. I've spent so much time reading and watching informative videos, but never put my ideas to pen and paper, or to finger and keyboard..
That's where the blog comes in. When I read blog posts, I look to see if the author has a unique perspective on an idea, or if they are making connections between several different ideas that I have not yet read or thought of. I've come across many blog posts recently that made me feel like I've read the exact same thing written by 30 different people. That being said, the whole thing doesn't have to be revolutionary for me to find value in it. Essentially, I'm looking to learn something new. I'm looking for valuable, intriguing concepts. In Cal Newport's book 'So good they can't ignore you', he uses the term "adjacent possible" to explain that combining different ideas in a certain space creates new possibilities. So, the goal for my blog is to do that, to bring you into my productivity, tech, and fitness spaces. Go check it out - feedback is much appreciated!
The integration of technology in different industries intrigues me
At a basic level, I'm a huge advocate for general day to day use of tech, and how it can exponentially enhance people's lives. I spent a brief period of my time doing smaller scale consulting for people who are looking to better leverage their technology in their various pursuits - which I get a lot of joy doing.
Career wise, I'm highly interested in and always learning about product management, user research/experience, and customer experience. As much as I'm interested in how we build things, I'm more-so interested in why we build things.
My long-term career plan is to be a part of the fit-tech industry and create products that help people take full control of their own physical health. If this excites you as well, send me an email, I'd love to have a chat.
When I see someone doing something I can't do, the first thing I always think is "I could do that if ___"
Let me preface this by saying that I am not by any means taking away from other people's accomplishments. Rather, I'm breaking down what I am seeing as I see it. I'm generally a systematic thinker, so I often ask myself a series of questions like: "How is this person currently doing this?", "How did they learn to do this?", "How long would this take for me to learn?", "What would I have to do/change to be able to do this?", and "Do I even want to learn how to do this?".
"Everyone you will ever meet knows something that you don't" - Bill Nye
Ever since I came across this quote, however, I have spent a lot of my time learning how to make better connections with others and how to be a better listener. Yes, I can try and systematically break down everything I see, but if I also listen closely to the person themself, I'll most likely be able to learn something worthwhile.
My athletic life will always be a part of me
Although my 'competitive' athletic days are behind me, there are so many lessons and attitudes that I've carry both into my personal and professional lives:
- I love competing. In my opinion, you can never be too competitive. Highly competitive environments should only motivate you more, as long as you are competing with the same overarching objectives in mind.
- I love pushing my body to its physical limits. The pain I feel when I'm almost entirely out of breath, and my legs can barely lift themselves off the ground is a surreal feeling. My favourite drill of all time is called 'Suicides'.
- When I want to be great at something, I work on it every single day. Although I wasn't the greatest soccer player ever, I was still on the field or had a ball at my feet every single day in the off season.
Although I may be 'washed up', I still spend 1-3 hours at least 6 days a week challenging myself physically, whether it be in the weight room, running hills, or playing basketball/soccer.
Two of my favourite athletes:
I'm not a fan of the saying “I’m a creature of habit”
Throughout my last few years in university, I was never content with how 'productive' I was. I tried different morning, night, and daily routines, but they never stuck. What I didn't realize however, was that throughout testing all these different tactics, I had unknowingly been accumulating many small habits that had been continuously compounding (James Clear's 1% rule).
It wasn't until after I read the 'Power of Habit' by Charles Duhigg and 'Atomic Habits' by James Clear that I realized a few things:
- Humans are all creatures of habit.
- Habits aren't permanent. We can change/choose our habits, it's just a matter of knowing how they work.
- Building systems around your current/desired habits is the key to cementing them. This takes time.
- The perfect routine/ritual is only as strong as its underlying habits that are required.
Every day I'm constantly making the conscious effort to manipulate the systems I use to make the rituals and routines that I want to stick, habitual. Please reach out to me via my email at the bottom if you want some examples of what I mean by this.
I'm an OCD driven minimalist
What I mean by this is that my (non-crippling) OCD restricts me from owning too many things. I hate having so many things that I don't know where to put them - if everything I own doesn't fit into their designated spots, then I know it's time to donate or throw some stuff out. I use this definition of minimalism for myself because, although I'd like to say that I'm a true minimalist, I like shoes too much; as long as there's a shoe rack big enough for all of them, then I am happy.
Being a minimalist has been trending over recent years, and although it's very hard to be done to perfection, there are still many benefits to trying. Something that I've used a lot is the 1 year rule; if you haven't worn or used it in an entire year, then you could probably get rid of it.
More fun facts about me
- I'm a protagonist: I'm sure you've heard of the Myers Briggs personality matrix. Well, feel free to read mine (I'm type A) - I'd say it's fairly accurate.
- I ask a lot of questions: I don't ever feel like I sound stupid because there's a 95%+ chance that other people have the same questions as me. People also fear that their questions have to bring value to the discussion without the answer - which just isn't the case.
- I'm a 'mama's boy': My mother immigrated to Canada at the age of 19, got her undergraduate degree, and became a full time nurse all while raising myself and my two brothers, all by herself. I'm still not quite sure how she was able to do all that, but there's not a single thing in this world I wouldn't do for her.
- I've been 'vegan' for almost 6 years: I'm not very vocal about this, because I do it for myself. I just believe that if we do not need to eat animals to survive anymore, there's no need for me to eat them. I just eat a little different, that's all.
- I don't watch TV shows or movies by myself: I believe that a large part of watching television is to experience it and talk about it with your friends, so I'd rather binge watch Grey's Anatomy with my girlfriend.
- I'm highly intrinsically motivated: I don't have to be pushed to get results. If it's a priority of mine, I don't need anyone but myself to get me to where I want to be.
- In another life I would design homes for a living: Creating sustainable, modern housing would be my specialty.
- I have an addictive personality - in a good way! When something becomes a priority in my life, I'm obsessive about becoming better at it. Come to think of it, that's probably why I stopped playing video games - probably for the better.
Quotes I currently live by
"Be the person you needed when you were younger" - Ayesha Siddiqi .
"A busy calendar and a busy mind will destroy your ability to create anything great" - Naval Ravikant
"Everything around you that you call life was made up by people that were no smarter than you" - Steve Jobs
"A lot of times, people don't know what they want until you show it to them" - Steve Jobs
"I think it is possible for ordinary people to choose to be extraordinary" - Elon Musk
"Practice going first" - Gabrielle Reece
"Be yourself, everyone else is already taken" - Oscar Wilde
"Everyone is interesting if you ask the right questions" - Kate Murphy
"Working right trumps finding the right work" - Cal Newport
"A person's success in life can usually be measured by the number of uncomfortable conversations he or she is willing to have" - Brené Brown